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god bless 라고 메세지 보냇는데 실례가 되는지요?

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님, 멘토가 되어 주세요.

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세상이야기 답변

금별 채택 85 채택율 7.4% 질문 0 마감률 0%

사실은 그 말이 천 번 백 번 맞는 말 입니다 그러나 사람들은 살아있는 몸에 너무 집착하기 때문에 죽음을 겁내고 두려워하고 슬퍼 합니다 그런 면에서 많은 사람들은 그걸 이해 못 하겠지요

사실은 그 말이 천 번 백 번 맞는 말 입니다 그러나 사람들은 살아있는 몸에 너무 집착하기 때문에 죽음을 겁내고 두려워하고 슬퍼 합니다 그런 면에서 많은 사람들은 그걸 이해 못 하겠지요

ditmars

감사드리고 다시 메세지로 Rest in peace 라고 더 추가 했읍니다.

비공개 님

그래서 결론은 무엇입니까? 그말이 맞는 말이지만 실례가 된다는 말씀인가요? 아니면 말을 잘 했다는 것인가요?

세상이야기

일반적으로 보면 약간 실례가 되는 인사 지만 깊은 뜻을 아시는 분께는 별로 기분 나뿐 인사가 아닌데 극히드물다는 뜻 입니다

비공개 님 답변

동별 채택 3 채택율 2.8% 질문 3 마감률 0%

R.I.P

R.I.P

SimpleLife 답변

은별 채택 60 채택율 9.9% 질문 16 마감률 0%

좋은 의도로 보낸 거는 잘 알겠구요, "god bless" 라고 밑도 끝도 없이 보냈어도, 아내을 잃은 상대분은 그 뜻을 잘 헤아리고 알아채겠지만, 좋은 표현은 아닙니다. 보통 

"I am so sorry for your loss. I'm very sorry you are going through this, and we are here for you. My condolences." 라고 하면 적절하고 좋은 표현입니다.


그럴일은 없겠지만, god bless 는 굳이 따지고 들자면, 아내가 죽어서 너 참 축복받았다고 왜곡할 수도 있기 때문이지요. 다음 번에는 위의 표현을 써 보세요.

좋은 의도로 보낸 거는 잘 알겠구요, "god bless" 라고 밑도 끝도 없이 보냈어도, 아내을 잃은 상대분은 그 뜻을 잘 헤아리고 알아채겠지만, 좋은 표현은 아닙니다. 보통 

"I am so sorry for your loss. I'm very sorry you are going through this, and we are here for you. My condolences." 라고 하면 적절하고 좋은 표현입니다.


그럴일은 없겠지만, god bless 는 굳이 따지고 들자면, 아내가 죽어서 너 참 축복받았다고 왜곡할 수도 있기 때문이지요. 다음 번에는 위의 표현을 써 보세요.

남진

적절한 표현입니다. 동의 합니다. 미국생활 오래하신 분 같습니다.

ditmars

감사 합니다. 기억 하고 있겟읍니다.. 다시또 추가 하여 rest in peace 보냈읍니다.

Rose 1 답변

동별 채택 11 채택율 25.6% 질문 2 마감률 0%

잠시 생을 생각해 보게 해준 원글님께 감사해요


 “Remember Me” by Margaret Mead


To the living, I am gone,

To the sorrowful, I will never return,

To the angry, I was cheated,

But to the happy, I am at peace,

And to the faithful, I have never left.

I cannot speak, but I can listen.

I cannot be seen, but I can be heard.

So as you stand upon a shore gazing at a beautiful sea,

As you look upon a flower and admire its simplicity,

Remember me.

Remember me in your heart:

Your thoughts, and your memories,

Of the times we loved,

The times we cried,

The times we fought,

The times we laughed.

For if you always think of me, I will never have gone.


God bless !

Rest in peace !!

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잠시 생을 생각해 보게 해준 원글님께 감사해요


 “Remember Me” by Margaret Mead


To the living, I am gone,

To the sorrowful, I will never return,

To the angry, I was cheated,

But to the happy, I am at peace,

And to the faithful, I have never left.

I cannot speak, but I can listen.

I cannot be seen, but I can be heard.

So as you stand upon a shore gazing at a beautiful sea,

As you look upon a flower and admire its simplicity,

Remember me.

Remember me in your heart:

Your thoughts, and your memories,

Of the times we loved,

The times we cried,

The times we fought,

The times we laughed.

For if you always think of me, I will never have gone.


God bless !

Rest in peace !!

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Candlelover 답변

해골 채택 0 채택율 0% 질문 5 마감률 0%
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  • It’s terrible to hear about your loss and I express my sincere sympathy to you and your family
  • I am deeply saddened by the loss that you and your family have encountered. My condolences.
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  • May my condolences bring you comfort and may my prayers ease the pain of this loss.
  • I offer you my thoughts, prayers and well-wishes during this dark time in your life.


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  • I am deeply saddened by the news of your loss. I pray that God will grant you the strength. My most sincere condolences.
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  • Please accept my condolences, just know that I am here for you, please don’t hesitate to reach out, especially during this difficult time.
  • May care and love of those around you provide comfort and peace to get you through the days ahead. My most sincere condolences.
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  • Remembering her wonderful and gentle soul will forever remain in our hearts. May she rest in peace!
  • A good heart has stopped beating, a good soul ascended to heaven. We part with our beloved grandfather in pain.
  • May our Lord bless and comfort you and your family during this time of grief. Please accept my sincere condolences.
  • We will never forget you. We will pray for him as he prayed for us. May God give him eternal rest.
  • I am truly sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. Please accept our condolences and may our prayers help comfort you.
  • I will never forget his kindness. May God give him eternal rest and the family the strength to bear the great pain.